Tammy Carter, Longview, TX
William Carter was near the end of his high school junior year in May 2010 when he was diagnosed with osteosarcoma, a bone cancer. The 17-year-old athlete who starred on his high school’s football and powerlifting teams faced a long road of surgery and treatment. His mom, Tammy, and dad, Greg, filled the role of caregivers.
“Greg and I wanted to be with William throughout his treatment in Dallas—about two hours away from our home,” Tammy said. “He was in the hospital a total of 124 days, had multiple surgeries, and underwent 18 aggressive chemotherapy treatments. We were by his side the entire way.”
Tammy says the already close family grew closer. “We were together 24 hours a day and got to truly know each other,” she said. “It was important for us to have open conversations about what we were feeling and going through.”
“William actually started his senior year in high school, so Greg and I taught his classes in the hospital room,” Tammy said. “I am a teacher so I taught him English and history. Greg is an engineer so he handled calculus and science.”
The family also bonded with medical staff. “I think it’s important to get to know your physicians and nurses, both professionally and personally,” Tammy said. “We developed strong bonds with William’s nurses, and consequently I was confident they’d take care of his medical and emotional needs like I would. That enabled Greg and I to feel comfortable taking an occasional, but needed, respite going to the movies or out to dinner.”
While in Dallas, the Carters also nurtured and relied on an extended support system in Longview. William’s football team and church youth group sent cards, posters, and words of encouragement. Tammy’s parents cared for their younger son. Friends mowed their yard and cooked meals.
“We couldn’t have done this without an extended support system,” she said. “We knew things were taken care of at home, which enabled us to fully focus on William’s care.”
William finished treatment and was able to graduate with his high school class. He’s since graduated from college. Now healthy, he and his family recognize the importance of a strong support system.
“I wouldn’t wish this experience on anyone, but we’ve learned to appreciate life’s blessings, many of which include people with whom we interact daily,” said Tammy. “It’s ok to ask for help. Our friends and family have helped us through life’s changes. We’ve adapted together and embraced them together.”