Melissa Mensch, Midland, TX

Melissa Mensch became a primary caregiver when her mother, Barbara Anderson, was diagnosed with stage IV metastatic breast cancer 10 years ago. Melissa, an only child who was 22-years-old at the time, already shared a close relationship with her mom. After the diagnosis, she moved home and took a full time job to support both their financial needs.

During Barbara’s treatment, Melissa cooked meals, helped feed her, cleaned the house, did laundry, and performed other home nursing duties. “I’m no doctor, but I’ve learned a lot about caring for my mother’s needs,” said Melissa. “I’m here to ensure she’s as healthy as possible, eating well, and drinking plenty of fluids.”

Today, Melissa continues to be Barbara’s primary caregiver. She says she’s sacrificed, but it’s been worth it. “My mom has made sacrifices for me her whole life,” said Melissa. “It’s a rare opportunity to repay your parents for all they’ve done for you. I like to think that part of my effort has enabled my mom to walk me down the wedding aisle and see her grandson’s birth.”

Melissa is using her experience to help others. “My mother is alive today due to screening,” Melissa said. “I spread that message to friends, colleagues, and anyone else who will listen.”

She also offers support and encouragement to other local caregivers. “It’s important to stay positive during tough times,” said Melissa. “Don’t get discouraged or expect immediate results. Trust your physicians and take each day as it comes. It’s also important to take time for yourself when you need it. Caregiving is a demanding job with a lot of responsibility.”