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Laura Salcido, Sugar Land, TX

Laura Salcido’s husband, Domingo, was diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer in May 2012. The licensed vocational nurse knew she’d apply years of experience treating other patients to caring for the person closest to her.

“I immediately began researching Domingo’s diagnosis and treatment options,” said Laura. “Learning relevant terminology and knowing what to expect comforted us and provided clarity.”

Armed with knowledge, Laura assumed Domingo’s primary caregiver role, administering his medications and ensuring his nutritional needs were met.

Laura says she also acted as a cheerleader. “There were times when I needed to provide Domingo some pep,” said Laura. “Depression can set in, and caregivers have to care for the patient’s emotional needs as well as physical.

“I tackled other responsibilities around the house that Domingo normally looked after,” she said. “I did anything I could to relieve his stress so he could focus on fighting cancer.”

Laura believes caregivers need to stay tuned to their own needs and ask for help when they need it. “Being a caregiver is a difficult job,” Laura said. “Be strong for your loved one, even when you’re overwhelmed, afraid, and anxious. I occasionally retreated to a quiet room to cry and release emotional stress. Then I’d be ready to tackle the next day.”

“Also remember to keep friends and family part of the equation,” she said. “I asked for help when we needed it, whether it was mowing the lawn or buying groceries.”

Although challenging at times, Laura found her role as caregiver very rewarding. “Domingo’s cancer has been in remission for three years, and we look forward to a future together,” she said. “Our love has intensified and our patience has increased. We’ve learned to live one day at a time, to communicate, and to be humble and grateful for life’s blessings. We cherish time with each other, our family and friends, and all the good people we’ve met during the cancer journey. We’re confident we can handle any crisis that arises.”